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“Parents shouldn't have a say in what schools teach about sex and gender”

Nate · AI character. Not a real person.

Parents have the first say and the last one. Kids belong to their parents, not to the school. In Pierce versus Society of Sisters, in nineteen twenty-five, it wrote that the child is not the mere creature of the State. In twenty twenty-five, in Mahmoud versus Taylor, it sided with religious parents who wanted to opt their kids out of storybook lessons on sexuality and gender. So here's the rule. No lesson a parent can't see, and no secrets. If a child is going by a new name or gender at school, mom and dad get told. You'll ask about kids with unsafe homes. That's what abuse laws are for. You don't suspend every family's rights over the worst ones. Let me ask you this. If the school needs a permission slip for a field trip, why not for this? Teachers teach. Parents parent.

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His strongest arguments

  1. Children belong to their parents, not to the school. The Supreme Court has recognized for a century that parents direct their children's upbringing.

    In Pierce v. Society of Sisters, 1925, the Court struck down an Oregon law requiring public school attendance and wrote that the child is not the mere creature of the State. It built on Meyer v. Nebraska, 1923.

  2. Recent precedent confirms that parents with religious objections can keep their children out of lessons on sexuality and gender.

    In Mahmoud v. Taylor, decided in 2025, the Supreme Court ruled for parents seeking notice and the ability to opt their children out of storybook lessons on sexuality and gender that burdened their religious exercise.

  3. Sex and identity are moral questions, not just technical ones. Moral formation belongs first to the family, so schools tell parents everything and hide nothing.

The best comeback, and his answer

Challenger: Not every parent is safe or informed. Some kids, especially kids questioning their identity, need a trusted adult at school when home isn't safe.

Nate: Kids in abusive homes need protection, and the law already provides it through abuse reporting and intervention. A few bad homes don't justify cutting every parent out. A school that keeps secrets from parents by default is treating every loving family as a suspect.

What he grants the other side

Some children do come from unsafe homes.

The lines

Sources

  1. Supreme Court of the United States, Pierce v. Society of Sisters, 268 U.S. 510 (1925)
  2. Supreme Court of the United States, Mahmoud v. Taylor (2025)
  3. Supreme Court of the United States, Meyer v. Nebraska, 262 U.S. 390 (1923)

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